Thank You, Lord for creating me in your image of love and designing marriage for me to love and be loved! Lord, remind me always of the Truth that there’s only one way to have sex and it’s in marriage between one man and one woman, and how You created sex to be pure to bring me great delight, fulfillment, and the deepest intimacy. I understand that all other sex is demonic and from Satan to destroy me. Empower me to flee from sexual immorality with Your Word in my mouth and in my heart. Remind me how beautiful and satisfying sex is in marriage and that marriage represents Jesus and His bride. Thank You for making me patient to wait for marriage (or blessing me to enjoy intimacy with my spouse frequently, and that we would always be satisfied by each other. Gen. 1:27, 31; 1Cor. 7:5; Eph. 5:25-33; Heb. 13:4; 1Cor. 6:15-20; John 14:6
Thank You, God, for the way of escape from sexual sin by simply calling on the name of Jesus, calling on Him in prayer and in truth. Remind me that simply calling on the name of the Lord, Jesus, the name above all names, I will always be saved. I call upon You, Lord, in the day of trouble and you always deliver me, and I will glorify You and exalt your name. I acknowledge You in all my ways and You make me well, right, good, pure. I understand that sexual sin is the most hurtful and hateful thing I can do to myself, others, and Christ and His body. Also that it is the will of Satan, and that lust is adultery only brings evil into my soul. Col. 3:3-7; 1Cor. 6:18, 10:13; 2Pet. 1:3-4; Rom. 10:13,12:9; Ps. 50:15; Matt. 5:28; Gal. 5:19-21; Eph. 1:22-23; Prov. 3:5-6
Keep me always remembering how critical it is to honor the marriage bed and keep it pure and that my body belongs to You, God, and my spouse (or future spouse) only. Remind me that You created sex for two people in marriage to bring me blessings, prosperity, peace, joy, and only good things. Lord, thank You that you raised me up from the horrible pit of sin and set my feet on the strong foundation of Jesus and filled my mouth with praise. Teach me to sing of Your Salvation and put confidence and trust in You everyday, to keep me strong in you and in your mighty power. Holy Spirit, be my Guide, Teacher, Helper, Strength, and Counselor to purity and freedom in Christ. Heb. 13:4; 1Cor. 6:18-20, 7:4; Rom. 1:21-31; 2Cor. 7:10; Rom. 2:4; Ps. 40:1-4; John 14:26,16:13; Gal. 5:1; Eph. 6:10
I was washed, sanctified, and justified in the name of the Lord Jesus. I know that my body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in me, whom I have received from God. I am not my own; I was bought at a price and I belong to God. Therefore I honor God with my body. I’m storing up Your word in my heart so that I don’t sin. I am continuing in the faith telling myself daily that I am holy, and blameless, and above reproach in Your sight. I will always surrender to You and pray with thanks and guard my heart and mind in Christ and live in freedom. Above all I will guard my heart and speak the truth and pray with thanks in everything and be filled with your peace. Your word heals and delivers me from all destruction. I have your precious promises and will purify myself from everything that contaminates body and spirit, and perfect holiness out of reverence for God. 2Tim. 3:16-17; Ps. 119:11; Matt. 6:19-20; Phil. 4:6-8; James 4:7; Prov. 4:20-23; John 17:17; Eph. 5:26; Heb. 10:22; Isa. 1:18-20; Ps. 107:20; Col.1:22-23; 1Cor. 6:11, 19-20; 2Cor. 7:1
I renew my mind and am transformed into the same image as Christ! I fix my eyes on Jesus and my eyes are the lamp of my body and Jesus, the Word make my whole body full of light. I renounce all sexual impurity and pornography and destroy all desires for them. I command every addiction to sexual sin to leave now in Jesus name and never return! I have eyes for my spouse (or future spouse) only! I give you my heart so that my eyes observe Your ways. Matt. 5:8, 6:22-23; Titus 1:15; Phil. 4:8; Ps. 19:8; Prov. 23:26; 1Pet. 2:11
In Jesus name I curse and command to die at the roots and break off all ungodly and impure sexual appetites, mindsets, visions, images, memories, desires, and attitudes from me. Thank You, God that I am in the love of the Father, in Christ and crucified to the world and and the world to me. Thank You for opening my eyes to see that friendship with the world is enmity with You. Thank You for teaching me not to love the world or anything in the world but to abide in Your amazing love and walk in the Spirit’s power so I don’t fulfill and gratify the lust of my flesh. Luke 10:19; Ez. 36:26; James 4:4; 1John 2:15; John 15:5-9; Gal 5:16
Help me open up, confess, and share everything with Spirit-filled believers who can pray over me, bring me healing, and keep me from falling into sin. Bind me together in a strong three-cord strand with other believers who can keep me accountable and living in the Holy Spirit’s power, love and sound mind (self-control). James 5:16; Eccl. 4:12; 2Tim. 1:7
Create in me a clean, pure heart and renew a faithful spirit within me. Teach me the way of Your true love and purity that I may enjoy an abundant marriage (or future marriage) through Jesus. Lead me to a marriage that is pure and that glorifies You, God. Speak all day to me that when there’s oneness in marriage the Lord commands the blessing. Ps. 51:10; John 10:10; 14:6; Ps. 133
I will humble myself to you and your word so that I may receive more and more grace. Fill my heart with Your love and gratefulness for my spouse ((or future spouse) and for You, God. Thank You for fulfilling these promises in my life! In Jesus Name Amen (So be it!) James 4:6; 1Tim. 1:14; Num. 23:19; Gal. 6:7; Ecc. 12:14
For Men:
As a husband, help me be considerate as I live with my wife, and treat her with respect as the weaker partner and as an heir with me of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder our prayers. Make me like-minded, sympathetic, loving, compassionate and humble. Help me not to repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but on the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this I was called so that I may inherit a blessing. Help me be on my guard and not be unfaithful to the wife of my youth. You say, “The man who hates and divorces his wife does violence to the one he should protect,” and that You hate divorce, so never let it be an option to me or even mentioned by me. 1Pet. 3:7-9; Mal. 2:15-16
